Being Silent is Not a sing that we are Accepting whatever the other person Said  
                       

Sometimes it is better to stay calm during the argument with the friends, room mates, colleges, higher
authorities, wife's, husbands, parents like that.  because at that time we may want to win the argument but after it may break the relation ship between two persons. so if we strongly want to continue the relationship with them better to keep quit let them win at that pass.

Some persons won't give respect to other persons ideas and beliefs but they want respect for their ideas and belief how crazy people are..... but its true we also belongs to the same track none can escape this type of mentality. but in my opinion it is wrong. if you want respect for your ideas and your thinking first learn to give respect to others ideas and thoughts.

Morning i had a hot discussion with one my friends she belongs one region i belong to some other region so in the chit chat we have started discussing about our own regions in the middle she started scold all the politicians who are all supporting my region. then i said without knowing about the people it is not the good thing to scold. there the attack started she didn't keep quite and more over started scolding all the politicians from CM to PM. i don't understand suddenly why she became such a mentally unbalanced person. suddenly she became so arrogant. finally i just kept silent. because i don't want to take that as personal.

i really get laugh how people can expect 100% from politicians and others if they don't give their 100% to society. how can they scold other persons like they are like this, they are like that ...

Any ways being a human being and mentally balanced person we should adjust the situation .Some times even we are right we can't say it loudly. because there we think we are insecure and we are lower than the person with whom we are talking or we don't want to break the relation ship with the persons.

Many times we may not correct but other person may correct, same as some times the other person is wrong but we may right. here the idea is not who is wrong. but every one has their own self respect.
Everyone believes their way of thinking is right. so before we conclude that persons opinion we should give respect to other persons thoughts and thinking. if they are wrong we can't say them that they are completely wrong based on their experience and the news they have listened and the things they have seen their idea may be right regarding the argument.

overall i strongly support silent treatment during the argument.





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